Why is it written into our generic codes or something that we need to find someone?

It seems as though we can't be happy if it is just "me"

I use to be just "me" for a long while and i was way happier

Then suddenly in a blink of an eye i became a "we" when you didnt want it.

Then another blink of an eye its been 4 years and its all over and you get thinking -

"i wish there was someone else to hold my attention"

A while back my girlfriend and i were chatting and she said,

"I hate it that i am finally happy now only because of a someone"

"I hate that i am only moving and changing only because of a someone"

As much as we are an individual, eventually you end up depending on the other person.

AND that my friends is when you learn of dissappoinment.

BUT this is all no other's fault but our own.

I gave that other person the ability to hurt me so.

I handed him the reins.

SO, after all the heartache and trouble....

it makes me think

Yes, it is nice to be cuddled and loved.
BUT there are dissaponments and pain.
Yes, it is nice to have the last call of the day.
BUT what about when they don't need it?

WHY DO WE NEED A SOMEONE?