Heart over matter..

They always say follow your head, not your heart

but its your head that takes you to these places

while your heart stays faithful.

- Being Aja

I fully agree with that statement above.

Hence why i understand why man cheat,

and why some woman follow the same course of action.

You know this is "The One" you love,

but yet, you always want something else as well.....

AND that is your head speaking, not your heart.

One's heart always remains true,

while it is the head that wanders.

BUT i guess in different scenarios,

it is best to listen to the head and not the heart?

e.g.

Like the person who was cheated on,

would he/she follow the heart,

the love for the Cheater;

Or,

follow the head,

"if they do it to you once, they could do it again"

I guess its hard to have a guideline for this things,

BUT I agree.....

Always follow your heart-

its where you to do things

you never thought you would;

its where you draw the strength

you never knew you had;

its who you really are

and what you really want;

its where magic happens...

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For those of you, post break up,

you might disagree and feel that it should be "mind over matter".

"I have to get over him/her" "I have to get him/her back!"

But maybe its all about expanding your horizons,

expand your mind to listen closer to your heart...

for maybe your heart doesntjust stop at saying -

"but i love her/him...so much...." "i hurt so much....." " i hate him/her"

Maybe if you open your mind and listen further

your heart is telling you,

"you have loved & been loved,

it was magic,

but now it is time to move on, to grow..."