THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN A
RELATIONSHIP IS
NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S
LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND .


SUSTAINING love is not a passive or
spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER
just happen to you. You can't "find"
LASTING love. You have to "make"
it day in and day out. That's why we
have the expression "the labour of
love."

Because it takes time, effort, and
energy . And most importantly, it
takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT
TO DO to make your relationship work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT
a mystery. There are specific
things you can do (with or without
your partner) to succeed with your
relationship.

Just as there are physical laws of the
universe (such as gravity), there
are also laws for relationships. Just
as the right diet and exercise
program makes you physically stronger,
certain habits in your relationship
WILL make your relationship stronger.
It's a direct cause and effect. If you
know and apply the laws, the results
are predictable...you can "make" love.
Love in marriage is indeed
a "decision"... Not just a feeling .
If you drifting away from your
relationship. It is indeed a wake up
call. Something happened within the
relationship. You either fix it or you
have to learn to walk away. Do not
wait.It wont fix itself