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If you have a bird in your hand, and you squeeze to hard it will die.
If you loosen your grip, you are afraid it will fly away.
But if you let it go and it comes back, its yours for good.

Thing is, you arent a bird.
Its not as simple.
Hence why 6 months is only good in theory.

And i've already squeezed to hard and it has died.