availability

When we are too available, does that make them want us less? Miss us less?

Looking back at our messages to and fro,
at the start of the relationship, he use to be ...
"But i wanna hug you to sleep tonite?"
"Am i seeing you tonite?"
and at the messages for when i am away...
"Food not good without you .... i miss you boo...muax"
"I never stopped missing you from the day i sent you off"

to the messages now...
"Are you having dinner on your own or with me? Cause i'm going out by 9"
"i'm home dee, you want me to come up and find you?"

The enthusiasm to see me now is lacking, and over the weekend, he tells me i suffocate him, that i am always there like on the weekends "sleep, wake up, lunch, afternoon, evening, night".
Stoopid me, i thought we enjoyed each other's company and spending time with each other.
Everytime i asked if i was suffocating him or something to that extent, his answer "no, boo, you are always assuming things, you think too much".

And then now this....
hmm....
ok enough is enough
i did mentioned no more negative vibes bad messages to the universe

But i was just wondering, when does the game end?
When can 2 people just be with each other in comfort without worrying, am i too available? am i suffocating him? should i seem a bit distant to keep his interest?
For me, i kept on going and spending time with him, cause i love him. And i thought, as one gets older, you just want someone whose company you love and vice versa.