"If you want something you never had,

do something you've never done"

"Don't go the way life takes you,

take the life the way you go"

"and remember you were born to live,

not living because you are born"

A friend sent me this through email amongst many others but nothing else hit the spot as much as this did.

In China now, doind a job and seeing where it takes me and going along with it.

The above JOLTED me.....a WAKE UP call.

It inspires me.....and thus, i shall try to live my life by this guidelines.

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN A
RELATIONSHIP IS
NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S
LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND .


SUSTAINING love is not a passive or
spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER
just happen to you. You can't "find"
LASTING love. You have to "make"
it day in and day out. That's why we
have the expression "the labour of
love."

Because it takes time, effort, and
energy . And most importantly, it
takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT
TO DO to make your relationship work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT
a mystery. There are specific
things you can do (with or without
your partner) to succeed with your
relationship.

Just as there are physical laws of the
universe (such as gravity), there
are also laws for relationships. Just
as the right diet and exercise
program makes you physically stronger,
certain habits in your relationship
WILL make your relationship stronger.
It's a direct cause and effect. If you
know and apply the laws, the results
are predictable...you can "make" love.
Love in marriage is indeed
a "decision"... Not just a feeling .
If you drifting away from your
relationship. It is indeed a wake up
call. Something happened within the
relationship. You either fix it or you
have to learn to walk away. Do not
wait.It wont fix itself

FABphotos are up

New photos are up at
www.fabphotos.blogspot.com

The ones of Cambodia should be up later.

ISHOULDSOBEDOINGMYWORKINSTEADOGBLOGGINGPHOTOS

Good Times

Today while i should be working as i have lots of backlog i tried to arrange dinner with some girlfriends as one of the man is out of town.

We went through about 8 emails and 1 sms.

So far dinner seems quite confirmed.

I was looking through old photos and old blogs when i found this picture of us.

Which seems so carefree.

A time when we didnt seem so committed to our work and and our life wasnt busy filled with work and errands.

Meeting up then was so easy, just a phonecall and we'd all somehow manage to contact each other one by one and meet up.

It was carefree fun.

AND thats what i miss.

Of course, the girlfriends that are no longer here i guess makes it hard as well.

i miss you guys

HIPPY BURFFFDAY BUV!